Dating advice from a woman
If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short (without appearing suspicious).
You may not be 6ft tall with a six-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you.
In the early stages of dating, you want her to be spending time with you because she likes you, rather than because she thinks she owes you something. If you don’t contact her within a couple of days, you’ll seem like you couldn’t be bothered, or didn’t enjoy the date.
If you don’t want a second date, don’t say you’ll call her. The sooner you tell her what a great time you had, the better.
On your date, make sure you don’t do all the talking.
If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future.
I’ve always wondered what goes on in the minds of Spanish women (or anyone, really) who are willing to date British guys…Unless those guys happen to be Daniel Craig or Hugh Laurie. And humble public servant that I am, I’d like to share what Gemma had to say about dating British men. And if you want to write a guest post for the blog, contact me here. If you like words, or blogs, or articles, you’ll definitely like my new book The Zen of Blogging, because it has all three.