Eldest child dating youngest child
(Just kidding, she was adorable and there was no way to be unfazed by the shenanigans.
She'd bite you if you were.)What I'm saying is that a huge part of what you experience, and how you react to those experiences, is based on what order you were born into your family.
They do best with people who are similarly open-minded, and chief among those are people who are strongly committed.
Studies show that middle children tend to be more laid-back and serve the role of the family peacekeepers.They are similarly driven, perfectionist in nature, and motivated to meet the standards of their parents.But unlike older siblings, that pressure doesn't do anything to fade over time, because there aren't any younger siblings to conveniently undercut it.The characteristics of older children are typified by the "Alpha" personality — somebody who is driven, takes charge, and is single-minded in their ambitions.It might make sense to conclude that they would want to end up with someone in a similar mindset — someone who would understand the hustle, so to speak.
The relationship dynamic is much more harmonious, with both partners recognizing and willing to make compromises without as much strain on partners who are both fiercely independent and headed in different directions.